words
i am someone who really digs on words. my mother instilled a love of reading and a love of the dictionary as a constant learning tool. we used to play a game where we would randomly pick words out of the dictionary and try to guess their definitions.
i can be really anal-retentive about words, which is why i probably do not write here as much as i could, or why i think so much about what i read. i also usually use fairly simple words most of the time, especially in print. that is because i am mortified that something like this will happen:
you are reading something and you are unsure of a word. you want to just define it contextually, but something does not sit right with that, so you look it up. once you do that, you find the meaning is not at all what the context would imply, but actually quite the opposite. this, then, leaves you wondering what the hell the writer really meant. the sentence appears to be positive, but with a clarification of the definition of the suspect word, it becomes not positive at all. this, then, leaves you pondering if the writer was intentionally writing with slight, or if they just do not know the meaning of the word, and if that is the case, why are they using it?
i guess this kind of thing is really not much to be spending my energy on, but then i am that person who loathes the use of "nauseous" to mean "feeling like you need to vomit," when the proper usage is "nauseated." (or, at least, it was - the constant misuse has changed the meaning, so the rest of my life it will be acceptable for people to say, "I am nauseous," and all i will hear is "i make people want to throw up.")
silly, i know. but words are powerful, certainly more powerful than fists, and should be used very carefully. no one wants to be left wondering if something is a compliment or an insult, and one misused (or not?) word can make all the difference.
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September 5th, 2006 at 3:03 pm
lorin the best thing you installed in my laptop is the dictionary!! xo
September 5th, 2006 at 10:01 pm
i am so glad you use it and love it. i will give you some other great links next time i am over.
i am thinking of starting a word of the day or word of the week around here - let's call it a revival of fun and educational childhood games.
in regards to this post, it is apparent that i just let people get to me too easily - and that they manage to both increase the condescension, and still miss my point completely. oh well.
September 5th, 2006 at 11:40 pm
thanks for that point. i had no idea...
when i just moved to the states and was bored out of my head, i used to say "i am so boring here", and had my english prof point it out... that was the last time i made that mistake.
what bugs me is when people use doble negations, or use 'their' for 'they're'
September 6th, 2006 at 6:38 am
well the nauseous thing is really just a quirk for me. it is truly acceptable to use it the way that people do, i just think it sounds funny. i am so glad you figured out that whole boring thing, because you are anything but, heheh.
September 6th, 2006 at 2:12 pm
You have a cool mom, what a great game for you to play.
I love words too, and a word a day would be very fun.
We all have quriks, I hate when people mispronounce words. That's silly,but true,